Coital Alignments: Better Orgasms For Women
Looking to give your partner intense orgasms? Consider the Coital Alignments Technique. This technique has many benefits, and in this article, we will explore how to do it, who can try it, and more advanced techniques and additional options you can explore. This sex position focuses on clitoral stimulation, and was coined by a psychotherapist and sex researcher. Many people have a harder time reaching orgasm through vaginal penetration alone. Using both vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation, there are many benefits to coital alignments.
Coital Alignments are different than missionary in regards to the position being more about both vertical movement and rubbing. The focus is more on clitoral stimulation, with the clit pressing against either the shaft of the penis or a toy. Some people call it “grinding the corn.”
Practicing the technique is the best way to get good at it, and it can be practiced and heightened with the use of a dildo for penetration between two partners who have vaginas. People with specific conditions and forms of sexual dysfunction can also use this technique to get harder and stronger orgasms. It is also known to help curb premature ejaculation for many people.
In order to do it, one partner needs to lie on their back and extend the legs straight out, slightly parted. The bottom partner will receive most of the stimulation unless both partners have vulvas. The second partner slides on top, and between their partner’s legs. The top partner should ride high, lifting their body higher than they would in traditional missionary position sex. Once you have lined up, the top partner rests their weight onto the bottom partner.
The top slowly enters the partner, just the tip, and the shaft of the penis or toy rests against the vulva, increasing stimulation as the shaft rubs against the clitoris. If you want to explore this further, take these tips in mind. Make sure to angle your hips and thighs up if you are the bottom partner. Adding cushioning below the bottom partner’s tailbone can help find a comfortable angle. If both people are moving in alternate directions, they can increase stimulation. Additionally, when exploring and after, make sure to pace yourself. This sexual position works best with a slow and controlled pace.
