Tips For A Submissive First Times With A New Domme
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Before we have a look at these tips and advice we have to pinpoint exactly what BDSM means. BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. The acronym has replaced the old term sadomasochism almost completely.
Prior to indulging in any BDSM activity it is recommended that you have a face-to-face conversation with your new domme first. During this chat likes, dislikes and boundaries need to be discussed in detail. It is also very important to address any health problems or concerns at this point. It is during this conversation that consent needs to be given for sex and specific activities or scenes.
Keep it fun and light the first time you are with a new domme. It is a good idea to begin with light flirting and touching before getting down and dirty. Experimentation at this point of your relationship is vital to determine what your partner's turn on's and off's are.
Wrist and ankle restraints with easy release mechanisms and blindfolds are great for BDSM activities with a new domme. These entry level products allow you to experiment with the feeling of restraint and the blindfold adds an element of sensory play while you learn to get comfortable with your new partner.
It is of utmost importance to practice safe sex especially with a new partner. It is crucial to use a condom every single time during vaginal or anal penetration. Dental dams should always be used during oral sex. And latex gloves worn during anal and vaginal stimulation. To increase sensation invest in lube, a lot of it!
When buying lubricant remember that water-based lube is safe to use with latex condom and gloves as well as silicone sex toys. It is also very easy to clean off after sex. Oil-based lube should never be used with latex or silicone as it disintegrates these materials. This disintegration can lead to condom or glove tears and in turn an increased risk of exposure to sexually transmitted diseases.
Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are spread mainly by sexual contact, including vaginal, anal and oral sex. Some STDs can also be spread through non-sexual means. It is important to note that not all STDs have a cure for example HIV but the disease has successful treatment options to reduce the HIV positive person's viral load until it reaches a point of being undetectable. When the viral load is undetectable, the virus is too weak to attack the immune system cells, which means that there will be less damage to your immune system. People with undetectable viral loads also cannot transmit HIV to their partner via sex.
It is recommended that you get tested for STDs on a regular basis or as soon as possible after possible exposure for example a condom leak or burst. Your physician will be able to provide you with information on the tests that need to be done as well as available treatment options in case of an STD positive test result.
