How to Try Fisting With a Partner
People can be nervous about inserting huge things inside their rectum and vaginas, irrespective of the pleasurable returns they may reap. The idea of inserting a big penis, giant dildo, or even the whole fist in you can sound intimidating any time it crosses the mind. Fisting alone is surrounded by several misconceptions and taboos in some cultures that prevent people from exploring its pleasures. If the fantasy around fisting fascinates you, there is no reason to let sex negativity and fear stop you from exploring the fun. You only need to learn what it encompasses and how to prepare adequately for it. Read the rest of this post to learn how to try fisting with a partner.
Safety First
Ensure you have sufficient lube to use throughout the session, as the vagina will experience intense fullness and stimulation. Proper hygiene is the other key aspect to consider when getting your hand in the genital area. Clean your hands and keep the fingernails short to prevent bacteria or scrapes from entering your lady’s genitals. Discuss with your partner to establish if it is okay for you to use finger condoms or latex gloves to boost the hygiene standards. They provide a barrier against germs and make it easier for your fist to penetrate the vulva opening.
Begin with Foreplay before Fingering
Getting all your five fingers into a vaginal opening is not an easy task. The easiest route to ideal fisting is ensuring your partner is relaxed and in the mood to receive your hand. You also increase the chances of smooth insertion when the lady is relaxed and adequately aroused. So, starting with some massaging, oral, touching, kissing, or whatever feels right before going deep into the pleasure tunnel is essential. Good foreplay will help the lady to be sufficiently wet and prepare her for penetration.
Start Slow
The general tactic is to insert a finger or two into the vagina to ensure the lady feels comfortable with it before progressing any further. Look at her facial expressions and the use of safe words before adding a third finger. Next, bundle your fingers into a beak-like form and continue maneuvering your hand into the vagina. At this point, you can use your thumb to work on the clitoris for stimulation while the three fingers in the pussy stroke the G-spot.
Build it, and she will Climax
Continue building up as you try to push the fourth finger in slowly. The next step is to collapse your knuckles into the narrowest position as you join your thumb close to the pointer finger. Such a tapered shape will ease your hand into her when she is wet and stretched enough for the entry. The most challenging part of the entry is pushing past the knuckle, but the wrist moves easily once the knuckles succeed. Again, prioritize safety and stop whenever she signals discomfort or alerts you with appropriate safe words.
You Are Now In
There is so much you can do with your fist and fingers once your hand is in the vaginal canal. First, ensure you identify her G-spot with your palm facing her pubis or belly. Then, use your fingers gently to make a come-hither movement while prioritizing her comfort. Some ladies love to feel fists moving back and forth when the hand enters their sweet spots. Also, some like clenching and unclenching the fist like a heartbeat pulsation. Remember to experiment with what feels pleasurable, ensuring you maintain open communication. Finally, stimulate her clitoris and labia with your fingers on the other hand, tongue, or a toy to supplement the pleasure.
Pulling Out
Do not pull your fist out too quickly, especially after your partner achieves orgasm. The muscle contractions that follow climaxing can make pulling your hand too fast after her orgasm painful. It is important to note that you will not pull out your hand from her while clenching the fist. Instead, ensure you return to the beak-like position to slide the palm easily. The whole experience can bring emotional and physiological drops to the lady. Ensure you are available for timely aftercare to restore your partner to reality.
Fisting is not an activity you can accomplish as quickie or unplanned kinky sex. As you learned, willingness and patience must tune your partner in to enjoy a shared intimate experience. The whole affair sounds like it can give you and your woman a trusting relationship and spice up your sex life.