The Sexiest Part of Hard Sex Is Earning Her Consent
You’ve met the most gorgeous woman you’ve ever seen and she’s giving you vibes that scream Fuck Me! You can tell she isn’t the type to be impressed with vanilla sex and you can’t wait to toss her around and see how hard you can get before she squirts. The problem is that you don’t know exactly how hard she likes it and how much of your hard-sex flirting was just talk.
Finding out what she likes, how far you can take the hardcore sex, and earning the privilege of gaining her consent are all part of the foreplay that will not only make your sex more enjoyable but will also ensure she gets that coveted orgasm that will keep her coming back for more. The communication doesn’t have to sound awkward and the way you earn that consent will ensure she’s begging you to fuck her.
The Sexiest Part of Hard Sex Is Hearing Her Beg For More
You get this woman home, and she wants to play a game called “thief in the night”. You are a thief breaking into her home and find her lying in bed, completely naked. What happens next is up to you.
Most hard sex involves at least a certain level of roleplay, and roleplay means saying things that will keep the mood as sexual and erotic as possible. Plenty of hard sex scenarios involve fighting or wrestling, holding each other down, and using restraints of some sort.
With a safe word in place and some hand signals in case her mouth is ball-gagged, you are ready to turn ordinary sexy into a wild game of how far is she willing to go with you – and that’s when quality BDSM porn can help you by giving you ideas for your own fantasy playtime adventures together!
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Getting girls to consent to being slapped or choked or fucked by a pack of guys in a hardcore gangbang is what makes the videos so sexy. When it’s consensual, you can enjoy every orgasm with a clean conscience, no matter how hard you spank her or how red her ass gets.
Getting Her To Consent To Hard Sex Is Easier Than You Think
Unless you’re a pornstar or creator, you probably don’t carry consent documents around for your potential partners to sign. It would not only ruin the mood, but it would also make you seem a bit unsavory to everyone you try to take home. Having the consent conversation by sitting down over a cup of coffee would be clear, but, again, it would likely ruin the mood before it even started. So how do you get clear consent?
Let’s play show and tell. Show me where you want it and tell me how hard.
Consent doesn’t need to be transactional. Have your partner show you where to touch her by touching herself, there, first. Ask her how hard she wants to be slapped or ask her how hard she can slap you. When you crave something hard, tell her what you want by saying it in her ear. If she enjoys hard sex, she probably knows exactly what she enjoys and what will give her the biggest orgasm, whether you want to be pegged or you want to fuck her in every hole. If she’s into the idea, she’ll make it obvious.
When she tells you what she wants, you are almost guaranteed to give her an orgasm.
When things are getting harder, or when you know that the typical “no” won’t be reliable for all the hardcore activities you’re about to enjoy, using a safe word or gesture that would not come up in sex will ensure you stay in the “consensual” range. Whether it’s raising a pinky when her mouth is full, saying “pineapple” if she can’t move, or stopping if the skin is broken, these boundaries can be clearly communicated by simply lowering your voice and talking next to her ear, so she continues to stay turned on.
Sometimes She Will Be The One Asking YOU to Consent!
The FemDom mindset is quickly gaining popularity and you can use this to your advantage in earning consent. The moment you are given consent, you know you’re about to enjoy all the hardest and most erotic fantasies possible. Just getting that consent and permission freely is fun, but earning that consent means you have to tease her and please her, first, which builds the anticipation.
Earning her consent and knowing she wants it is part of what makes it so sexy.
When you hand a woman the power in hard sex, she feels more comfortable with your role. She will tell you exactly how to choke her or ride her. She will let you know what you are allowed to do to her and exactly how to earn that consent to use her body like a sex toy. Hearing her tell you to use a vibrator or dildo for double penetration, or to tie her up and fuck her like she owes you money are just two of the many ways she may reward you when you take the time to earn her consent.
Get out there and enjoy it as hard as you want, and don’t forget that her consent is essential in achieving the best orgasms you will ever experience!