It´s Not an Orgasm if It´s Not Vaginal
What is an orgasm?
Orgasm is the fourth phase of a sexual encounter that is preceded by anticipation, excitement, and plateau phases in sexual response cycles. It is characterized by involuntary relief of muscle tension, serial muscular contractions, auditory and verbal emission of pleasure, and increased breathing and heart rates. It is also known as cum or climax.
Most pleasure-seekers will admit that they experience a wide range of orgasms depending on the part of their body that is stimulated. Climaxes also differ in intensities, overall quality, and lengths. This contradicts a conventional perception that you can achieve orgasm only through vaginal penetration or stimulation. The rest of the discussion explores several other erogenous areas that can give you unforgettable orgasms.
1. Clitoral Orgasm
If you have never had an orgasm in your sex life, the clitoris is your surest spot to ignite a breathtaking sexual pleasure. The clitoris serves as the glans penis with high sensitivity when stimulated. It has a dense nerve network that primarily provides sexual pleasure.
How to Attain Clitoral Orgasm
Clitoral stimulation gives you the chance to climax without conventional vaginal penetration. It is imperative to establish if you prefer indirect or direct stimulation of the clitoris. Renowned sexologists recommend rubbing the clitoris in a spiral fashion with your fingers rather than using sex toys. Start through the clitoral hood and labia or touching the clitoris straight. Begin far from it and move closer until you ultimately spiral over it and back out in a similar approach. Identify how and when your body reacts as you try different touching styles until you establish what works right for you.
2. G-Spot Orgasm
The G-spot is one of the theorized highly erogenous zones on the front vaginal wall that can be stimulated during sex. Sexual health experts argue that it is equivalent to the male prostate gland. Stimulating the G-spot is among the popular techniques to achieve vaginal orgasm.
A Guide to Achieving G-spot Orgasm
The founder of “Ignite Your Pleasure” Amy Levine recommends that you pee first to avoid holding back as stimulating the G-spot comes with an urge to pee sensation and squirting. Insert the middle finger in your pussy around the urethral base. Stop at the area that feels like a corrugated surface and stimulate it by vibration or toy rubbing. Try a sex position that rubs the G-spot with penetration from the rear entry until you climax.
3. Anal Orgasm
The anterior rectal wall shares several nerves that connect to the vagina. This connectivity of sensory nerves enables ladies to enjoy sexual arousal through rectal stimulation during anal drilling. Also, the base of your clitoris extends back to the anus, making it possible for back door stimulation to ignite the clit for the coveted orgasm.
How to Attain Anal Orgasm
Anal penetration should stimulate the central nerve zone by gently pushing the penis or toy towards the belly button until you orgasm. Sexologists recommend using enough lubricants to work your way into the butthole. Also, remember to use your tried and sure maneuvers as you seek to attain anal orgasm.
4. Nipples
You already know what and where the nipples are, but establishing how you can climax only from stimulating them may be your concern. Obstetrics and gynecology specialist Christiane Northrup who authored Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom, says that stimulating nipples leads to the release of oxytocin that causes vaginal and uterine contractions.
How to Achieve Nipple Orgasm
Concentrate on the pleasure you receive from breast and nipple stimulation and see where it leads you. You may stimulate nipples using hands, sex accessories, and tongue. Choose what works well for you and see yourself orgasm without a touch on the pussy.
5. Orgasms
Many people get sexual arousal or orgasm. However, it may be hard to describe the anatomical and physiologic processes that lead to such climaxing due to the unreliability of reporting a dream. It remains difficult to claim that all orgasms that occur during result from sexual dreams. Researchers are still investigating if people stimulate their bodies unconsciously or get stimulation from bedding and other objects.
Better Orgasms
It is now evident that you can get mind-blowing orgasms from several other erogenous zones in your body other than the conventional vaginal route. Although there is no evidence that stimulating one part can lead to a better orgasm than others, various suggestions can lead to prolonged and improved climaxes. Partners should discuss their interests and what leads to their arousal and guarantees orgasm when getting intimate. Knowing your bodies and being adventurous can spice up your sex life as you explore other erogenous parts for orgasms away from vagina exploration.